Mr. Xenotime

Argh, why didn't this work?

Fri, 22 Sep 2006 01:45:32 GMT

erm I tried posting this entry before, but it didn't work? Anyway here goes

Firstly I believe that when it comes to relationship qualities, there are two general kinds. The “important” ones, and the “luxury” ones. The important ones are what make the relationship and ensure that they are lasting. Luxury qualities are called luxury specifically because they are nice, and add to the experience, but in no way are these necessary. Important ones, would be honesty, caring and respect/Teamwork and forgiveness. You need to be honest with your partner about things, lying can be one of the worst things possible, since it raises suspicion and such. Caring, you need to really care for the one you love. Many times on life we get sad, or face tough situations, sometimes these can be situations that only one person of the relationship must face (say, something at work) but you need to be caring enough to be there for them bye always offering constant support and try not to get angry at them if you can see they had a bad day. Respect is a huge factor too, that is, if one dislikes something that the other is doing (Say, spending too much time at work or with friends) , being able to talk it out and come to an agreement is a very important ability that both partners must have! Teamwork, which is sort of linked to respect, because relationships are all about facing problems together as a team! Both people need to be willing to help each other out, and manage their tasks as a team to complete the necessary everyday life events that we must face. And finally, last, but certainly not least, is forgiveness. There will be issues, misunderstandings, confusion or mistakes at one point or another in a long term relationship, that’s fine, but I believe if these things are done, then instead of getting mad over things of the past. To be able to forgive, and want to learn from mistakes is extremely important because life is all about learning from your mistakes, not giving up and succeeding against even the toughest challenges! The “luxury” things that I mentioned before, include things such as: common interests, sense humor, physical appearance and yeah it’s a long list. If you think about relationships, in terms of LONG run, and what’s most important, you will find that these things are nice, but, really really aren’t necessary.

And like I said in my first one, if you speak to anyone who has thought about relationships or has been in one, they'll definitely say that they know all this stuff I mentioned up there, it's just the point of that was me trying to stress it's importance (and how some other things aren't as important). And yeah, but good luck everyone with their love life, you can all do it! ^__^;; <333

Little thingy I wrote up before about Love stuffs =o

Fri, 22 Sep 2006 01:38:37 GMT

Firstly I believe that when it comes to relationship qualities, there are two general kinds. The “important” ones, and the “luxury” ones. The important ones are what make the relationship and ensure that they are lasting. Luxury qualities are called luxury specifically because they are nice, and add to the experience, but in no way are these necessary. Important ones, would be honesty, caring and respect/Teamwork and forgiveness. You need to be honest with your partner about things, lying can be one of the worst things possible, since it raises suspicion and such. Caring, you need to really care for the one you love. Many times on life we get sad, or face tough situations, sometimes these can be situations that only one person of the relationship must face (say, something at work) but you need to be caring enough to be there for them bye always offering constant support and try not to get angry at them if you can see they had a bad day. Respect is a huge factor too, that is, if one dislikes something that the other is doing (Say, spending too much time at work or with friends) , being able to talk it out and come to an agreement is a very important ability that both partners must have! Teamwork, which is sort of linked to respect, because relationships are all about facing problems together as a team! Both people need to be willing to help each other out, and manage their tasks as a team to complete the necessary everyday life events that we must face. And finally, last, but certainly not least, is forgiveness. There will be issues, misunderstandings, confusion or mistakes at one point or another in a long term relationship, that’s fine, but I believe if these things are done, then instead of getting mad over things of the past. To be able to forgive, and want to learn from mistakes is extremely important because life is all about learning from your mistakes, not giving up and succeeding against even the toughest challenges! The “luxury” things that I mentioned before, include things such as: common interests, sense humor, physical appearance and yeah it’s a long list. If you think about relationships, in terms of LONG run, and what’s most important, you will find that these things are nice, but, really really aren’t necessary.

I'm sure if you ask anyone who has either thought about the subject of love, or has had relationship and love experience, they would tell you that they knew everything above and what I just typed, BUUT only I have actually stressed the importance of things, and the irrelevance of others =DD But good luck for all of you with your <3<3 relationships and such! ^_^

I ponder, the meaning of life?

Tue, 11 Apr 2006 01:31:20 GMT

Hehe I love my LJ, I can rant about all sorts of stuff that I think about lots! I've thought about the meaning of life for years, and never really had any ideas, it seemed more like a mythical question than a reality one, but then it just hit me that the meaning if life is really related to experiences and how you deal with them. Well, what I think the meaning is anyway. I started to think about it a lot more recently, when I searched my MSN username (Quantum Alchemist AX) on Google, and came across a friend's blog only to see some admirable advice that I remember giving.

Mr. Xenotime~ Quantum Alchemist AX siger:
When there is a problem, you must accept the reality of things...even if it's really tough to, you should never let something put you in a state of depression where you miss off oppourtunities! Some problems, you need to change, other things like family deaths you need to accept, but whatever you decide to do for your problem you need to stick to
Mr. Xenotime~ Quantum Alchemist AX siger:
your choice and never give up!

Now, after seeing that, I felt like writing more on this, so in philosophy class I just wrote some ideas, here:

Examine life, look at one's life on a general scale. From this, I've decided that this special thing that is in EVERYONE's life, is growth and change. The true meaning of life is how we approach and deal with these changes and obstacles that we face. With that being said, you can observe that the most successful lives are usually ones where the person is in a situation where they strive to change it, or accept it, but never give up on what they do (see what I said above on MSN). Many of these people had very limited oppourtunities initially in their lives, but worked very hard (never giving up aspect) and used all the oppoutunities they earned that they could. They never stopped trying, no matter how hard things got for them, and in my mind the ultimate form of "giving up" in life would be suicide. I'm not talking about suicide from being 80 years old and going to die anyway from some painful cancer, I'm talking about losing the will to go on when you're young because you can't face your problems. Setting a goal, sticking to it no matter what is truly the way to live a happy and meaningful life. Being able to face and overcome your obstacles is the most important thing in life and you can take two people from any time period, culture and country and see how this concept of dealing with problems will ALWAYS be there. Specifically, you can also see this in what people call the greatest happiness in life. That is; Love. Love is however a team work effort, but I guarntee you all that a relationship will not last (or not last in a healthy way) if both people cannot work together. You and your partner would have the goal of living together (maybe even raising a family together) and that's your goal, but to get there you will need to face lots obstacles together, and again all of my above rules apply that I mentioned on MSN. Keep in mind though, everything requires sacrafice, it's just the reality of life, you can't avoid it all the time, but you can be smart with it. This ideal about life cannot only relate to love, but heck, just about being successful in ANYTHING. Even Maple story (an online video game) you can relate this too, in the sense that your goal is to get to a high level, but you need to train hard in order to get there. And if you let things, like say dying and losing EXP stop you from leveling, then you won't suceed in your goal, and yeah I think we all get the point now.

My very first entry!

Wed, 05 Apr 2006 20:59:31 GMT

I’ve been reading friend’s LJ entries for over three or four years, I’ve been asked to join LJ many many times, and I always sort of put it off to the side as it never really interested me. Recently however, I have been thinking about many things, and in class I’d find myself literally pulling out a pen and writing all this stuff down on paper, I guess this is the way people who have Diaries feel. I must say, I don’t like writing if there is a required style, but if I am able to write about (or type in this case) whatever I wanted, just pure ideas then I really seem to enjoy it! So now you get to find out all about me!! Yay!! =DDD Let me say some things about myself, for my first entry:

Firstly, I am attending high school (grade 11 at the moment) and I’m actually aiming to become a high school science teacher. I didn’t randomly decide to become a high school teacher, I’ve actually taken deep thought into this. Initially I thought I’d be a Lawyer, since adults often comment on my ability to rationalize and say things like “What are you, my lawyer?” or “You’d make a great lawyer” since I was young, I didn’t realize that those were casual conversation comments. As well, when I looked into law, I realized how boring I find it, ESPECIALLY the business comment of law! Then I thought I would be a medical researcher, someone who researches all different kinds of medical cures and tests them (NOT a doctor!) since I love science. There was no problem with this thought, but instead, after tutoring (I’d literally spend entire work or lunch periods helping some friends) and helping some of my classmates with material that I’ve already known, I must say that I’ve REALLY enjoyed it! I enjoy teaching, because I seem to enjoy easy tasks (obviously it’s easy if you already know it all!) , as well the feeling of helping someone and knowing that they are learning. Now, when I think of a FULL Time career, I don’t look at the things like the amount of vacations, the pay (to a reasonable extent of course) the major major thing that I look for is if I can actually enjoy the job. I love teaching, I can be insanely patient with my teaching, and I ALWAYS simplify material so that anyone can easily understand and I love lecturing! It’s in my blood to teach, I just know it, it really makes my day after I’ve taught someone something so I know teaching will be the most fulfilling job for me. The next question that comes to mind, why a high school teacher, why not elementary or professor? Well, I’ve been considering becoming a professor actually, but I realized that I myself just LIKE the whole high-school environment, I really feel that I can make a difference for those who have little or no motivation to do well in life. In a university, you don’t have those people since the people who are university are only there to learn (and had to pay for it too). However, I wouldn’t mind being a professor I suppose, it’s still pretty nice, I’d probably need to work harder to get there though =x but yeah I’ll see how things go ^_^; I’ll keep a positive open mind about this one =D Elementary school is different, my biggest problem is that since the students are much younger, the teacher is more of a babysitter, they need to deal with a lot more social issues that kids may have. You need to be on the students backs a lot more for things like homework and assignments and yeah it’s just the fact that there is more responsibility involved on taking care of students that really bugs me about elementary school. I know the material is much easier though, but they really don’t do any science until grade 7 or 8, and even then I’m sure any teacher who hasn’t taken science in university could probably teach it. For high-school there is a lot more teacher subject specializing than elementary school (especially in the higher grades where I live). And yeah, that’s really where I am right now, I do have some other ideas on some other things, but I think I’ll leave it that for now, I really want to go play some Maple and level up to 75! Next entry, I’ll be sure to rant about why I love Maple (typing this here so that I don’t forget =x) and yeah, hope you enjoyed my thoughts about becoming a teacher! =DD